Showing posts with label self-awareness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-awareness. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 1, 2025


WILLIAM S. BURROUGHS

I am not one of those weak-spirited, sappy Americans who want to be liked by all the people around them. I don’t care if people hate my guts; I assume most of them do. The important question is whether they are in a position to do anything about it. My affections, being concentrated over a few people, are not spread all over Hell in a vile attempt to placate sulky, worthless shits.



Sunday, December 24, 2023


SALMAN RUSHDIE
The Satanic Verses

On winter nights he, who had never slept beneath more than a sheet, lay beneath mountains of wool and felt like a figure in an ancient myth, condemned by the gods to have a boulder pressing down upon his chest; but never mind, he would be English, even if his classmates giggled at his voice and excluded him from their secrets, because these exclusions only increased his determination, and that was when he began to act, to find masks that these fellows would recognize, paleface masks, clown-masks, until he fooled them into thinking he was okay, he was people-like-us.



Saturday, November 4, 2023


MARLENE DIETRICH

I’m not an actress. I’m a personality.



Thursday, August 10, 2023


JOSEPH CONRAD
"The Return" from Tales of Unrest (1902)

She strode like a grenadier, was strong and upright like an obelisk, had a beautiful face, a candid brow, pure eyes, and not a thought of her own in her head.


Tuesday, June 13, 2023


ELLIOT PAGE
Pageboy
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My imagination was a lifeline. It was where I felt the most unrestrained, unselfconscious, real. Not a visualization, far more natural. Not a wishing, but an understanding. When I was present with myself, I knew, without exception. I saw with startling clarity then. I miss that..... Those were some of the best times of my life...traveling to another dimension where I was...me. And not just a boy but a man, a man who could fall in love and be loved back. Why do we lose that ability? To create a whole world? A bunk bed was a kingdom, I was a boy.


Sunday, June 11, 2023


EDMUND WHITE
City Boy: My Life in New York in the 1960s and 70s
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There was something stubborn in me that didn't want to lose weight to attract a man. If the right man came along, he'd be able to see my virtues magically. Once he kissed me, the frog would turn into a prince. I had become a trick question, a heavy disguise, but behind the disobliging exterior was the welcoming child I would always be. Of course, what I'd forgotten was that he was not Parsifal and I was not the Grail; the medievalism of my imagination was not sufficiently up-to-date to recognize that the lover was a shopper and I a product.


Wednesday, August 10, 2022


ELIAS CANETTI
The Tongue Set Free
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What a man touches upon, he should take with him. If he forgot it, he should be reminded. What gives a man worth is that he incorporates everything he has experienced. This includes the countries where he has lived, the people whose voices he has heard. It also takes in his origins, if he can find out something about them... not only one’s private experience but everything concerning the time and place of one’s beginnings. 

The words of a language one may have spoken and heard only as a child imply the literature in which it flowered. The story of a banishment must include everything that happened before it as well as the rights subsequently claimed by the victims. Others had fallen before and in different ways; they too are part of the story. It is hard to evaluate the justice of such a claim to history... We should know not only what happened to our fellow men in the past but also what they were capable of. 

We should know what we ourselves are capable of. For that, much knowledge is needed; from whatever direction, at whatever distance knowledge offers itself, one should reach out for it, keep it fresh, water it and fertilize it with new knowledge.


Saturday, December 18, 2021


WILL ROGERS
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Never miss a good chance to shut up.


Wednesday, September 1, 2021

URSULA K. LE GUIN
The Dispossessed
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For we each of us deserve everything, every luxury that was ever piled in the tombs of the dead kings, and we each of us deserve nothing, not a mouthful of bread in hunger. Have we not eaten while another starved? Will you punish us for that? Will you reward us for the virtue of starving while others ate? No man earns punishment, no man earns reward. Free your mind of the idea of deserving, the idea of earning, and you will begin to be able to think.

Wednesday, August 11, 2021

bell hooks
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I still think it's important for people to have a sharp, ongoing critique of marriage in patriarchal society — because once you marry within a society that remains patriarchal, no matter how alternative you want to be within your unit, there is still a culture outside you that will impose many, many values on you whether you want them to or not. 

Sunday, August 1, 2021

bell hooks
Communion: The Female Search for Love
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Think of all the women you know who will not allow themselves to be seen without makeup. I often wonder how they feel about themselves at night when they are climbing into bed with intimate partners. Are they overwhelmed with secret shame that someone sees them as they really are? Or do they sleep with rage that who they really are can be celebrated or cared for only in secret?

Thursday, July 29, 2021

ELIAS CANETTI
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I would love to study the faces in heaven. Otherwise I’d know of no reason to want to show up there. The faces in hell I already know well, as I wear them all at various times myself.

Saturday, September 19, 2020

GEORGE BERNARD SHAW
Back to Methuselah
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You use a glass mirror to see your face; you use works of art to see your soul.

Thursday, September 17, 2020

BHAGAVAD GĪTĀ
Chapter 18 / Text 48
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Every endeavor is covered by some sort of fault, just as fire is covered by smoke. Therefore one should not give up the work which is born of his nature, O son of Kunti, even if such work is full of fault.

Thursday, September 10, 2020

FLANNERY O'CONNOR
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Accepting oneself does not preclude an attempt to become better.

Friday, August 14, 2020

DEBORAH KERR
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If you have freckles, you might as well relax and enjoy them. There’s nothing you can do about them.

Sunday, April 26, 2020

NANCY ETCOFF
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Attitudes toward beauty are entwined with our deepest conflicts surrounding flesh and spirit. We view the body as a temple, a prison, a dwelling for the immortal soul, a tormentor, a garden of earthly delights, a biological envelope, a machine, a home. We cannot talk about our response to our body’s beauty without understanding all that we project onto our flesh. 

Friday, April 3, 2020

ANAÏS NIN
Little Birds
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We don't see people as they are. We see people as we are.

Sunday, January 12, 2020


SPIRITUAL GROWTH WITH ENTHEOGENS
Psychoactive Sacrementals and Human Transformation

Thomas B. Roberts, Editor

Huston Smith, Stanislav Grof, Albert Hofmann